You always have the choice to say "NO" but you say "Yes" because for some reasons you have to, probably because you need it too. Things will not always happen the way you wanted to; the way you expected to; the way you planned it to, simply because that's "Life". Nobody's life is on someone else's hand. Nobody own your feet to tell you when, how, or where to go. So don't blame it to someone else because it's all yours.
Do all the things without murmuring and arguing, so that you may be blameless and innocent, children or God without blemish in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation, in which you shine like a starts in the world. It is by your holding fast to the world of life that I can boast on the day of Christ that I did not run in vain or labour in vain.